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for Women -
Eye contact.
Make it. A lot. Don't be shy. Fortune favours the bold.
Don't
be afraid to flirt. A little joke could go a long way.
Show
pride in your appearance. Clean hair, nails and teeth are always appreciated.
Flattery
could get you everywhere. Give a man a compliment and he'll be putty in your
hands
If you'd like
to see him again telling him isn't against the rules. Make it clear and he will
understand.
Tips
for Men -
Be
confident. You have her undivided attention. Make the most of it.
If she looks or
smells good tell her. Don't go over the top but signal her efforts have not
gone to waste.
Dress the part.
Clean/smart shoes or trainers don't take a great deal of effort to organise.
And iron's aren't that difficult to use. So do it.
Find
any shared interests and listen to them. A balanced conversation goes a long
way.
Always
leave with a smile. Let her know her time was appreciated.
Do's
and Dont's
DO -
Come in a
positive frame of mind. If you attend our event determined to have fun and
enjoy yourself you will.
Have the
courage to attend on your own. We ensure that you will be introduced to fellow
Speed Daters as soon you arrive so do not be afraid. We have experience of
hundred's of events behind us and us this to your advantage.
Be
yourself. You do not have to put on an act impress anybody at any of our events
Smile.
You would be amazed how easy it is to put someone else at ease simply by
smiling.
Look
your best but be comfortable. You rarely get a second chance to make a first
impression.
Make the first
move. It can make all the difference and really involve somebody who may be
shy.
DONT
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Talk
too much. Being able to listen can speak volumes.
Talk
over people or shout. Wait for a natural break in the conversation. Manners
cost nothing
Disrespect
someone you have met in front of others. They may know the person or be
attracted to them.
Drink
too much. Dutch courage is one thing, slurring your words is entirely another.
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